The testimony of Mary: "Do not let them enter the hospital. There was also a man in a gown that gave me the murder: it was a shock" .
"I think every day the baby ever born, but need more respect for those who make such a choice"
SARA Strippoli
"I had an abortion with RU486. In late August I went to St. Anne for the control. On the sidewalk Via Ventimiglia I approached a woman who was flyer for the pro-life movement and began to tell me if I knew what was going on in that place, that place was horrible, a abortificio. I was there for a checkup and I was not quiet, I was not willing to to listen, I just said I was in hospital for an abortion, a woman who was not an easy choice, which would leave me in peace.
obviously did not know that I had miscarried, I was told that they could help me, support me. The man in white coat, nurse?, Who was behind her and was distributing leaflets have heard what I was saying and started to scream that we were the killer, that women who abort commit a murder, are mentally ill. I raised my voice too, I said that before any other consideration, a man could not understand what could prove a woman. He raised his voice even more, he said that I could give birth and then to take my son. I was horrified, I cut short and I entered. When he went out again. , Unpleasant experience, I will never forget. "Mary Speaks, 34, used. He decided to tell this story because, he says," I read in the newspapers of the intention to bring the region at the hospital who want to convince you that you're committing a murder. I am astounded by the idea that a man like that, which also bore the coat and said he had all the skills to be able to speak, may be one of those who might be in front of a little girl, perhaps mistaken for an institutional figure. A shock. "
On that August day when she went to St. Anne for that control, Mary asked the doctors working in the department abortions, abortions, if they knew what was happening outside," I have confirmed that often were there out flyers, trying not to get in front of the entrance. Then I talked to other women who were waiting like me. One had the flyer in hand, another told me that I had an abortion but she was conscious of having committed a sin. I experienced a feeling of anxiety, I am convinced that every woman in those conditions and know how to choose well that whatever the decision will pay a price. "
Mary does not deny to wake up every morning thinking about that child could be born:" But I do not felt, I was alone, I did not feel strong enough. But I believe strongly in freedom of choice, all possible aid and no brainwashing of religious inspiration. "Welcoming the advice was good, people say" I met wonderful people with whom I could also mention that I have explained in very clearly all the effects. Among other things I have health problems that pose a risk in the case of surgical abortion. For me, RU486 was the only safe solution. "
After this experience, Mary says he believes that if anything is needed even more attention to women who have abortions, that they do with the pill or surgery: "I believe that we should not save on personnel, if anything, we would need a social worker or a psychologist, someone who in addition to health issues made it very clear by doctors, may also explain what are the possible paths for a woman to mother, any institutional support, practical assistance. " Even in the hospital could offer more: a bit 'of extra staff to avoid undue haste, more suitable, preferably away from places where children are born: "I think this is the way, certainly not the disturbing presence Who's first to offer his help try to convince you, among other things, often in a bad way, you're committing a sin and not a choice, however painful for your life. "
(the republic October 25, 2010)
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