Vi sono dei capi che preferiscono essere temuti, e altri che invece preferiscono essere amati.
All obviously want to excel, to be admired, but they also want the first reverence, respect, fear. And 'the attitude of the professor who strikes fear in front of you miss the words. Or the executive who requires a humble attitude and, if it conflicts, threatening you and do not hesitate to fire you. E 'convinced that people obey only if afraid of being punished. Sure that many aspire to take his place, warning them. Looking at history we find many dictators and monarchs, severe, or who have never fraternized with peers or with the people. We think of Philip II, and Francisco Franco.
The second type of man, however, want the respect and admiration be accompanied by a warm feeling of affection. He wants to be obeyed because people believe in his vision in his good faith, in its generosity. He wants to be loved and admired as a great actor for his talent. He's happy with his companions, seeking contact with the people. There are entrepreneurs of this type. But most of all great generals who were among their soldiers, or popular leaders such as Evita Peron.
not just two different styles of command, but with two different personalities.
The first is introverted, cold, suspicious, with a steely self-control. Does not show his emotions. He does not like the company, does not allow people outside your family, you do not trust anyone, does not ask for advice. Always think of solving problems by force. Decides on its own and does not alert the other of its decisions. Can not bear to be disappointed. He does not trust men, they fear. He hates his opponents, destroying enemies vanquished. Does not prove he does not believe in gratitude and appreciation of others. The leaders of this type have several advantages: they do not come as a surprise, because they destroy their opponents, not in danger of being betrayed. They also have two weaknesses. By not informing, not asking for advice, they can do that no gross errors corrected. Furthermore, not being loved, when things go wrong all abandon them.
The second type of man, by contrast, is outgoing, emotional, and not ashamed to show their emotions. E 'extremely confident of their abilities. Receives into his house and co-workers and friends, work, work in groups. Question to all their views, discuss the problems. Because it wants to be loved, are friendly, generous, always wants everyone to agree. He tries to ingratiate himself even our enemies. It gives us confidence and is very badly when the other does not correspond to his expectations or betrays him. It is not vengeful and forget the wrongs. E 'enthusiastic and transmit enthusiasm. The leaders of this type, in times of trouble, they can always count on the dedication of their people. However, they have two weaknesses. Because they want to feel loved, are struggling to take drastic measures or unpopular, also delude themselves to conquer their enemies with kindness and generosity. Thus, the risk of being murdered, like Caesar, by those who have benefited.
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